Home & Humbled

I should be at the worship service which I oversee...but this morning my little one and I are home sick.  Just the bug that's going around, but feeling yucky just the same.  We're hoping some rest will help us both.  Being at home, quiet on this Sunday morning has been quite a blessing.  It's my bride's last day in her current ministry position and we were all supposed to be in attendance to help celebrate her big impact the past three years and then I was going to run back to my service and lead the time of prayer.  Instead, here I sit - as my little one plays with her dolls.  While I'd love to have been able to carry out the plans I had for this day, I've been humbled to know that it really was never about me...but rather about what God is doing - and He can do it just fine with me on the sidelines for a Sunday.  My leadership team is finishing up an incredible worship experience as I type these lines, and my bride will soon be enjoying a reception in her honor, without my extreme extraversion spilling onto it.  Yes, I would have loved to been blessed by these two celebrations this morning, but being here on the couch may be even better.  It causes this loud leader to be quiet and still, at home and humbled...a great place to be knowing that even here I'm not alone - for God is with me.  Come boldly to Him!!!

Enjoy the journey,
Scot 

No Limits - vs. Know Limits

One of my Soldiers is sick as a dog today.  He came in to work in spite of it but could barely sit up staight in the office.  He is at the doctor's office as I type this, but his situation got me to thinking.  While I was pondering this, I ran into another one of my Soldiers who shared with me that he recently found out that he was being promoted.  I asked if he would head back into the hard charging world where we met or if he was going to stay in his administrative job with the new promotion.  He shared he'd be staying put.  One Soldier, sick and tired, pushed himself with a motto of "no limits."  The other, realized that his life tempo in past years had pushed him to the edge and that he was learning to "know limits" and how working within them was actually setting him free.  NO LIMITS - KNOW LIMITS...both good mottos with which to live.

Enjoy the journey,
Scot

Speechless

I was driving back from dropping my daughter off at school yesterday and lamenting that my body had succomed to the crud...and that the congestion had settled in my throat, rendering me with little to no voice.  In the midst of my pitty party I heard the following lyrics on the radio, "I am speechless..."  The irony brought a smile to my face.  The song's message focused on being speechless in the presence of God.  As an extravert to the extreme it's rare that I'm speechless.  However, with my current cold, I've been forced to be quiet and listen...to voices of those around me, to the sounds of life and to the still small voice of God's Holy Spirit.  Being speechless has spoken volumes!!!  Blessings!

Time & Space

“A proverb in Ecuador states, ‘Everything takes longer than it does.’”  (from Margin, by Richard A. Swenson, M.D. – 2004)

Isn’t that the truth?  While our tasks seem to increase, our time seems to decrease and then our stress levels shoot through the roof.  Part of my job is to help each of you grow in spiritual fitness, reducing stress and building resiliency.  So how do we get create more time and space in our days?  Well, time is static – we can’t add anymore hours.  Space, or margin, on the other hand, is something we can control.  Dr. Swenson, in his book, Margin, offers 16 prescriptions to gain a “time margin” in our lives.  Here are the first three:

1)       Expect the unexpected – this “is not an invitation to sloppiness or mediocrity but instead a concession to reality.”

2)      Learn to Say No – “When Steven Jobs took over Apple Computer…he preached that the company needed a prioritizing plan… ‘Focus does not meaning saying yes,’ explained Jobs, ‘it means saying no.’”  Make a “To Do” list and a “To Don’t” list.

3)      Turn Off the Television (Technology) – For the average adult this would gain twenty to thirty hours a week…really!!!  Add to that the mindless web-surfing, gaming, and texting that we do and you’d be amazed how much time you’d have on your hands. 

Why is this so important?  Let me quote Dr. Swenson,

We must have some room to breathe.   We need freedom to think and permission to heal.  Our relationships are being starved to death by velocity.  No one has time to listen, let alone love.  Our children lay wounded on the ground, run over by our high-speed good intentions.  Is God now pro-exhaustion?  Doesn’t He lead people beside still waters anymore?  Who plundered those wide-open spaces of the past, and how can we get them back?  There are no fallow lands for our emotions to lie down and rest in.  We miss them more than we suspect…In our enthusiasm to improve material and cognitive performance, we neglected to respect other more complex and less object parameters along the way.  The social, emotional, and spiritual contributions to our well-being were, and continue to be, overlooked and underestimated.

Make the commitment this week to add some margin to your day.  Start by adding 15 minutes of quiet.  Yes, you may go through techno withdrawal, but you’ll add space that allows you to find rest for your soul, healing for your mind, hope in your relationships and health for your body. 

Think about it!